Do What’s Needed

Two horses, literally looking out for each other.

One evening in 1970 something, my family sat down to dinner–all but my oldest brother, who’d just gotten his driver’s license.

The phone rang and my mom answered, but something was off. She hardly said anything. After listening for several seconds, she spoke, “Where is he?”

My sixteen year old brother had been in a car accident and was en route to a local hospital, his condition unknown.

Both parents rushed out the door, headed for the ER. I can still see dad’s crumpled napkin next to mom’s unfinished plate.

Our fifteen year old brother stayed behind to look after my younger brother and me. Calmly, he plopped clumps of cheesy potatoes on our plates. “You’d better have some more,” he said. It felt surreal, the three of us dining in silence across from a trio of empty chairs.

Despite being seven years old, I wasn’t afraid. My older brother had everything under control. It would be years before I realized how truly concerned he was for our oldest brother.

He did what was needed.

While David was at Horesh in the Desert of Ziph, he learned that Saul had come out to take his life. And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God.

1 Samuel 23:15-16 (NIV)

Jonathan and David, of ancient Israel, were best friends, the king’s son and a shepherd boy turned superhero. But King Saul, Jonathan’s dad, had gone mad. He was jealous of David, fearing the popular young man who had slayed the Philistine warrior Goliath. With murderous rage, he chased him into the desert–seeking to kill him.

But prince Jonathan risked his life to get to David before his dad and helped him find strength in God. At the same time, he was truly concerned for his father.

He did what was needed.

Back to the dinner table. My parents called about an hour later. Our oldest brother had a broken jaw but would be OK.

Here’s to Jonathan and my brother, Ron: two courageous caregivers who helped others find strength in God.

Kind reader, let’s you and I do the same.

Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the Lord.

Psalm 32:24

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️


This post first appeared here on July 1, 2019.


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25 responses to “Do What’s Needed”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thanks for sharing your story, Eric! I’m a bit behind in my blog reading, but will catch up this weekend. Blessings, brother!

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  2. DailyArmorDevotional Avatar

    I’m thankful for those who have stepped in to encourage me during difficult times.

    When my grandmother passed away in 1997, a family friend named Steve came over to watch our dogs while we went out of town for the funeral. The night before we left, I was in the living room, a sad 14 year old, anxious mess. This was my first familial loss.

    Steve just put his arm around my shoulders and asked how I was doing, I remember crying and sharing my heart with him, the first time I felt free to do so.

    He listened and encouraged me greatly, not as a Christian, which he wasn’t, but just as a friend with a listening ear.

    I never forgot that moment. It’s how we’re supposed to be:kind, caring, considerate, and good listeners during difficult times.

    Have a blessed day, brother David!

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  3. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Peggy. And thank you for adding the scripture. It’s sure fits the story! Blessings!

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  4. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Lovely story! Glad your brother was ok.
    A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a difficult time. Proverbs 17:17

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  5. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Indeed they are, Matt. And you are one of these for me!

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  6. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Good big brothers are a blessing.

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  7. My Life in Our Father's World Avatar

    Yes, we must take care of those that the Lord puts in our path.

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  8. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, he is–and continues to be! He’s the first person I call when it feels like the sky is falling, and he always brings me back to reality.

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  9. BerryBunch.family Avatar
    BerryBunch.family

    What a sibling!!

    Andy B

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  10. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Manu. God Bless!

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  11. Manu Avatar

    This was such a lovely reminder.

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  12. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Thanks for the encouragement, David. I wonder why horses congregate at the fence corners.

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  13. davidsdailydose Avatar

    True, brother. It’s difficult to know how best to assist someone who is in dire need. Do we pray and listen, or take more direct action? 🙏May God give us wisdom to know how to help others with the right words and actions.

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  14. davidsdailydose Avatar

    It’s amazing how others can be “God with skin on” for us, and we can do the same for them!

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes! Sometimes we’re the helper, and other times we’re the helped. Both are necessary and needed. Thank you for reading and commenting, Chris.

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  16. davidsdailydose Avatar

    My mom made the best cheesy potatoes! I think she used half a box of velveeta cheese for every batch!
    Thank you for stopping by!

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  17. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you. Yes, it was an hour or two of uncertainty. These days, with cell phones, my brother at home would have received a text saying all was well.

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  18. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You’re welcome. My big bro turned 65 in December.

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  19. God Still Speaks Avatar

    Thanks for sharing this! Glad your brother was okay!

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  20. FlowIntoWords Avatar

    Interesting to read about a moment from your childhood, David. Glad to hear your older brother ended up being okay.

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  21. God Still Speaks Avatar

    Thanks for sharing this story again! And you actually had me at cheesy potatoes!

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  22. Chris Hendrix Avatar

    Thank God for those who do what’s needed. He gives grace and strength to us to help us through times like this.

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  23. Don't Lose Hope Avatar

    I appreciate those who have helped me to find strength in the Lord when I have been going through difficult times. It brings a peace like no other. Thanks for sharing this.

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  24. Alan Kearns Avatar

    Being an encouragement for those in the midst of hard times isn’t easy; thank God for His Spirit covering us in His Grace. May we find our wisdom and strength in Him, Amen 🙏.

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