Turtle Trauma

It was the most pleasant petting zoo one could imagine. The critters walked right up to you! People, both little and big, loved to come and mingle with the animals. There was a white pot-bellied pig, a sweet shetland pony, and everyone’s favorite, a terrapin named Lucky.

One day, as the story goes, Lucky’s good fortune ran out. A three-year-old, gone rogue from his mom, slapped the mild-mannered turtle on the top of his shell–over and over. Lucky’s head went inside, not to be seen again for an hour. Finally, a gentle zoo keeper coaxed the traumatized little guy to stick his neck out for a bite-sized tomato.

The wise in heart are called discerning, and pleasant words promote instruction.

Proverbs 16:21 (NIV)

Have you ever been in Lucky’s shoes–I mean shell? Twice, in the past three weeks, someone told me, almost bragging: “I have no filter. I say what I think and people just have to deal with it!”

Turtle Slapper🐢👋

Whoever derides their neighbor has no sense, but the one who has understanding holds their tongue.

Proverbs 11:12 (NIV)

Kind reader, let’s both be like that gentle zoo keeper–coaxing others out of their shell with a bite-sized snack. Because, as my cheerful grandmother used to say, “Only happy birds sing.”

Now I’m mixing metaphors.🙃

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


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43 responses to “Turtle Trauma”

  1. musingsofmanettekay Avatar

    I love your grandmother’s wise phrase.

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  2. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Good reminder to be careful with our words

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  3. ladysheepdog Avatar

    I’m doing my best to speak the truth in love and the betterment of the body of Christ, the Church, my fellow Christians or whatever name we want to use.

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  4. BerryBunch.family Avatar
    BerryBunch.family

    Jesus may well have offended the Pharisees. But I would never say His intention was to offend them, but to help them see the truth by stating truth.

    Which is really the difference here I think.

    There’s being offensive for the sake of it (as per the example in David’s post) and speaking truth, which is offensive.

    It always comes down to the heart – what is our motivation? ‘Cos that’s the bit God sees.

    Andy B

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  5. satyam rastogi Avatar

    Beautiful post

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  7. ladysheepdog Avatar

    Some days I’m just tired of political correctness or the “Good Christian” perspective of we never do anything wrong and we always have to put our best foot forward and all the pretending everything is peachy king. There is a balance to reality checks and not verbally living in our imperfections. Some days I just want to say, “Hey life is really hard right now.” And not have to Christianese everything. There’s a time to mourn and a time to have hope and speak positive. And I did get verbally punched by Christians on this site (WP) for speaking what I see is truth. Also, I keep having some of the Christians not wanting to post some of my comments as I guess they don’t fit their agendas. So much for freedom of speech, even when they complain about it happening to them or others in some other arenas.

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  8. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Blessings to you and your family!

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  9. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Peggy! I discovered the term quite unexpectedly, written, in a child’s hand, on a piece of discarded scrap paper. It may be a kid’s video game “handle?” But at first read, I envisioned a naughty little boy slapping a turtle. Thank you for stopping by! God Bless.

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  10. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Love your post, David! I am afraid that “turtle slappers” has been added to my vocabulary. But a great message for us all!

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  11. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Majik’s comment, and now yours, challenge me to look beyond the words people say, and try to understand their intent.

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  12. ladysheepdog Avatar

    or by being autistic

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  13. ladysheepdog Avatar

    Jesus offended the Pharisees, just saying. Or maybe I’m really saying that getting punched by other Christians for telling the truth, like Jesus was telling the “religious” people of His day, isn’t fun, per se, or maybe it is. I do admit the older I get, the more fun it is to say whatever I’m thinking, aside from trying to get people to be more Christlike. You know, the Betty White Is Off Her Rocker type stuff. Just not doing the blue type verbiage. That needs to not happen.

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  14. ladysheepdog Avatar

    Its great when we can apply this to ourselves. Its hard when we have to say yes he/she did. I just went to a funeral yesterday for an eighteen year old who ended their own life. I wasn’t close to the family, but it still is heartbreaking. But, yes we need less turtle slappers.

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Nicola. As I know you are a person who uses words for a living, your compliment means much to me. I also chuckled at Andy’s comments and thought 💭 “ That’s just the kind of thing a former truck driver would say.”😁 🙏God’s richest blessings upon you and your family.

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  16. BerryBunch.family Avatar
    BerryBunch.family

    😁

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  17. seeingliketheeagle Avatar

    Great post David. I love the way you write and the lessons you teach. I will be thinking about “turtle slappers”. Andy B’s comment did make me smile too.

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  18. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, terrapin turtle slapping toddlers (I love your use of alliteration!) is right, and many of them are full grown humans. Thank you for being a faithful reader and commenter, Beth. God Bless!

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  19. Beth Alisan Avatar

    Oh dear, that’s the kind of bragging that makes you want to run for the hills. I like your mixed metaphors, David. May the world be filled with more gentle zoo-keepers and happy singing birds and less terrapin turtle slapping toddlers (meaning the adult toddlers not the 3 year old ones).

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  20. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Agreed. Prayers and real love (God’s kind) is just what is needed. After all, we are all sinners who need God’s grace. Thank you for sharing. Blessings!

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  21. God Still Speaks Avatar

    Let us pray for the “filter-less” and their bragging about it like it is a good thing. That’s just what they are, turtle slappers!

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  22. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I’m still learning it too, brother. My new job has forced me to further develop my negotiation skills. I saw a bumper sticker last weekend that said “But did you die?” I’m like, “Ok, God. I’ll keep trying and relying on Your grace.” Thanks for sharing, Rainer. God Bless!

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  23. davidsdailydose Avatar

    The story ends happily. I envision Lucky with protections in place—a child proof fence, or the like. Thank you for reading and commenting, Vera. God Bless!

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  24. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    Turtles and birds, birds and turtles. Discernment is a kind gift the Lord gives us to know when to speak and when to hush. I’m still learning that. Good word, David.

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  25. Vera Day Avatar

    The poor turtle. Yeah, I hope we strive to make the birds sing.

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  26. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I love it! Thanks for contributing and creating, Majik!

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  27. Majik Avatar

    I wrote a haiku about changing inspired by your post today, David. https://lousyhaiku.blog/2023/09/30/lousy-haiku-328/

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  28. davidsdailydose Avatar

    True. Live by the sword? Die by the sword. I prefer to live by the spoon. Pardon me, would you like to try a bite?😀

    Thanks, Andy B. God’s best to you and the whole bunch.

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  29. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Amen, Crystal. Thank you!

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  30. BerryBunch.family Avatar
    BerryBunch.family

    The kind of people who are happy to speak verbally and offend others better watch out for those that are happy to punch them!!

    Not condoning that, obviously!

    Great post David my good brother!!

    Andy B

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  31. Crystal Byers Avatar

    That poor traumatized turtle! And the poor turtle slappers out there! May they find the Proverbs and God’s unconditional grace.

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  32. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, my grandmother was such a positive person, despite her hard working life as a farmer’s wife. She sang through many a storm! Thank you, brother. God Bless you, and the Kearns clan.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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  33. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes it is, and I forgot how broken filters are sometimes brought on by trauma. More mercy, from me, is in order. Thank you for reading and commenting. God Bless!

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  34. Don't Lose Hope Avatar

    Having a filter is a good thing!! Thanks for another great illustration 🙂

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  35. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Or like a good chicken salad, with lots of goodies mixed in. Thanks for stopping by, Gary.

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  36. Gary Fultz Avatar

    Good insight David. I do like mixed metaphores…it’s like adding ginger ale to kool-aid .

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  37. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You’re right, Majik. Thank you for saying this. Some wise person said, “Hurt people hurt people.” I was taken aback by what I thought to be callous comments about interpersonal relationships—something I value highly. But, as you say, those who think, talk, and act like this may have been repeatedly turtle slapped themselves. I should give them the benefit of the doubt and show more grace, like God shows to me-just another flawed human being. God’s best to you, brother Majik!

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  38. Alan Kearns Avatar

    Thank you for sharing this encouraging message David. Your grandmother was a wise woman indeed; may we sing sweet songs of cheer in our days, just as the Nightingale sings in the storm.

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  39. Majik Avatar

    The person who said, “I have no filter. I say what I think and people just have to deal with it!” has likely been traumatized more than most people. Please pray for that person and use your gentle empathy with him or her. God willing, that person will change to become more socially acceptable and enjoyable. I should know, because I’m kind of like the person who said that, and God through loving people is changing me. If you think about it, King David’s Psalms are largely unfiltered, and King David’s God liked them so much that He both inspired and preserved them for us.

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  40. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Betty! The scripture often comes after the story. This may sound backwards, but life moments often come first, for me, and then I think, “There’s something in the Bible about this!”

    As for terrapins, we usually have one in our front flower bed every summer. Didn’t see one this year.🙁

    As you love to say, enjoy your day!

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  41. Betty Avatar

    David, I love how you weave in a Bible verse to your stories. This is a real talent. We have such power with our words. Power to build up and power to destroy. Our world needs this divine wisdom so very much right now. Thank you for your post. P.S. That turtle picture is awesome!

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  42. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Indeed we are. Adulting adults is a full time job for some. Thank you for reading and commenting. I love animals, too–especially dogs, who pass so little judgment. They just love and accept you as part of their pack. People should take notes. Thanks for stopping by. God Bless!

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  43. FlowIntoWords Avatar

    A wonderful analogy David! I enjoyed reflecting on your words.

    My heart is naturally softer to animals, I see them like children. But adults are just bigger children in a lot of ways aren’t we?

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