Above and Beyond

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Every Friday night, before we sing on Saturday, I text the nursing home activities director,“Are we still good for tomorrow?” She usually answers with a thumb’s up emoji, but one week she sent the message,“Please lead the residents in patriotic music, around the flagpole out front, for Armed Forces Day.”

My wife and I eagerly arrived the next morning, expecting to see everyone gathered, but there was no one out front. Inside, I found two of our regular sing-along attenders, but they knew nothing about the change. Disheartened, I trudged back out to the car. “It’s a typical weekend mix-up,” I told my bride, sounding sorry for myself. She encouraged me to go back in—one more time—and look for the assistant activities director, Nichole.   

Back inside, I found her—looking frazzled, yet focused. “We are short-staffed today,” she said. “I’ve been changing bedding.” I went from crestfallen to concerned in a blink. Nichole confirmed the flagpole plans but was unable to make them happen.“It’s too hot outside, anyway,” I offered. “May we bring everyone into the dining room?” “Sure thing!” she said.

            While I unpacked and tuned up, Nichole, my wife, and a few others assembled a sizable crowd–several residents, with their children and grand children mixed in. We sang patriotic songs and favorite hymns together for about thirty minutes. It was one of the sweetest and most treasured times of song and fellowship ever!  And it almost didn’t happen.

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            Afterwards I told Nichole how much I appreciate her going above and beyond today. “That is my calling,” she says, smiling from ear to ear. The only thing missing was two wings and a halo. I smiled, too, at the reminder: For many nursing home employees, their work is more than a job—it’s a labor of love.

And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’

Jesus- Matthew 25:40 (ESV)


Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


This piece was first published in the Sunshine Weekly Newsletter, a publication which is shared in nursing homes and assisted living centers. A special thank you to Peter Caligiuri, aka “Pastor Pete,” for inviting me to contribute a monthly column! Peter blogs at praise2worship.net

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28 responses to “Above and Beyond”

  1. deborah wenzler farris Avatar

    Oh heavens, no need for apologies here! 😄

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  2. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Amen! Sorry for the slow reply. His best to you and Todd.

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  3. davidsdailydose Avatar

    We enjoy singing with our Senior friends. It truly is a blessing. Thank you for stopping by! God Bless.

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  4. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you for reading and commenting, Priscilla. Nichole is one of many selfless employees my wife and I have met at nursing homes and assisted living centers.

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  5. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    What a beautiful post! It brought tears to my eyes. God bless those who work with the elderly!

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  6. peggywritesblog Avatar

    What a wonderful ministry you and your wife do! Blessings and joy!

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  7. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Nancy. The scripture reference you shared complements this post perfectly! God Bless

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  8. Nancy Ruegg Avatar

    I pray God’s blessing on all such workers as Nichole. They give of themselves so unselfishly, cheerfully pouring their energy into patients’ lives day after day. I pray they experience a Spirit-enhanced sense of satisfaction because they’re serving others as if they were serving Christ (Colossians 3:23, 24). May we all follow their example wherever we might be called to serve!

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  9. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Ok, this makes more sense. I was starting to wonder if someone took over your account.😀 I will ask about this and let you know. Thank you for your interest.

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  10. Catsandcoffee Avatar

    OMG, I meant PenPals. Not Pencils! Lol

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  11. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I’m not familiar with Sr. Pencils. Is it like pen pals? Yes, I live in the United States of America. Thank you for stopping by. God Bless!

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  12. davidsdailydose Avatar

    We started nursing home ministry when my grandmother was in an assisted living center. The residents there were so appreciative of the music. We’ve kept going, after a break during COVID, and love every minute of it!

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  13. Catsandcoffee Avatar

    Hey, Are you in the U.S? Not long ago, a few Nursing Homes had Sr. Pencils? I wrote to a few but never got a response. Let me know if anyone is interested at the home(s) you visit. Thanks

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  14. Grandma's Ramblings Avatar

    My husband and I did ministry in nursing homes for years….God bless those who serve the elderly.

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, brother. I thought I knew what Hebrews 6:10 said, but went to check. It fits this post, and also so much of the selfless service many do for Jesus’ sake—you included! Here it is:

    “God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love that you have shown hi as you have helped his people and continue to help them.” Hebrews 6:10 (NIV)

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  16. davidsdailydose Avatar

    We’re usually there on the weekends, and they are often short-staffed. But you never hear employees complaining. They step up and take care of the residents, whatever it takes. I’m not surprised you served in a helping profession, brother! It comes through in your writing. God’s best to you and the Kearns clan. 🙏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸

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  17. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, Bridget! Nichole put her best foot forward, and keeps doing so— day after day. Last Saturday she wasn’t there because she drove someone to dialysis. This is not her regular job, but she stepped in, once again. I am inspired! 🙏 for you and your family. God Bless!

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  18. davidsdailydose Avatar

    True! I’m not naturally a patient person, so my wife helps me. Sometimes things don’t happened as planned, and sometimes it’s for the better. Thanks for stopping by. God Bless!

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  19. Pure Glory Avatar

    It is amazing what happens, David, when we remain flexible and open to change. Many get blessed! Thanks for sharing.

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  20. Bridget Avatar

    Such a heart-warming story. Sometimes we just have to put our best foot forward and God will help work things out in a beautiful way. And God bless those who work in nursing homes and hospitals. What a gift they are. And God bless you and your wife for helping bring cheer to the elderly.

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  21. deborah wenzler farris Avatar

    Yes, that’s what I meant. I’ve been reflecting on Psalmist 23 lately…those paths of righteousness…you know? You described it beautifully.

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  22. Alan Kearns Avatar

    As a former care assistant in many nursing homes in my previous employment I really appreciated this post today David. I and many others saw what we did each day more than a mere job. God bless you and Nancy today brother 🙏 🇺🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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  23. jesusluvsall Avatar

    I am thinking of Hebrews 6:10 David. People living in nursing homes are often overlooked and lonely. Your visits there with your wife bless them and God will remember it.

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  24. davidsdailydose Avatar

    A nursing home is also one of the few places you can truly talk with someone without being interrupted by mobile phone screens. There is much wisdom that comes from so many seniors!

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  25. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Amen, Deb! 🙏Lead us, Lord. Help us to look out for others. God Bless!

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  26. Don't Lose Hope Avatar

    It truly is a ministry of love – working in a nursing home. I truly appreciate those who serve, and pour out genuine love and kindness on these important members of our society.

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  27. deborah wenzler farris Avatar

    Such a wonderful reminder of what’s important, first thing this morning, as I stand here waiting for the water to boil for coffee. 😀
    Fix our eyes, and open our hearts Lord, as You lead us along Your paths.
    Thank you, David and blessings to you and your bride. ❤️

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  28. deborah wenzler farris Avatar

    Such a lovely reminder of what’s important this morning as I stand here waiting for the water to boil for coffee.
    Fix our eyes and hearts, Lord, on You and lead us along Your paths.
    Thank you, David, and blessings to you and your bride. ❤️

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