The Sittin’ Spot

The silver-haired woman who lived across the street from us when I was a kid was a mystery to me. Most summer mornings, she sat alone at her front yard picnic table, under the shade of a large pecan tree, doing what appeared to be absolutely nothing.

Curious, I asked my mom why the grandmother-lady just sat there all day. โ€œThatโ€™s Mrs. Deeds,โ€ she said. โ€œAnd sheโ€™s not just sitting there. You should go visit with her some time.โ€

One Saturday morning as I rode my bicycle up and down our residential street, I had one eye on the road and one eye on Mrs. Deeds. She was sitting in her usual spot with a large bowl in her lapโ€”singing!  ๐ŸŽถPlenty good room. Plenty good room. Thereโ€™s plenty good room on the glory train. ๐ŸŽถ  Iโ€™m at a full stop now, eyes gaping. โ€œCome on over, child,โ€ she said with a grin. โ€œI donโ€™t bite.โ€ 

I walked my bike up, putting it down in the shade, and sat down across from her. โ€œWhatโ€™s in the bowl?โ€ I asked. โ€œTheyโ€™re pecans, child. Iโ€™m shelling them to make a pie. I pick up baskets of these from underneath this tree, and I always make good use of them.โ€ Inquisitive and artless, I blurted out the burning question on my mind: โ€œWhy do you sit here by yourself all day?โ€

With an, I-knew-you-would-ask-me-that look she replied, โ€œIโ€™m not alone, child. This is my sittin’ spot with the Lord.โ€ I looked around, like a typical eight-year-old, expecting some guy named โ€œLordโ€ to appear. โ€œOh, you canโ€™t see the Lord,โ€ she chuckled. โ€œYou feel Him in your heart, and you think about Him in your head.โ€ I learned to shell pecans that day, but most importantly I discovered that God is someone you can know as a friend.

The next winter, during a childrenโ€™s crusade at the little Baptist church I attended, I came to know the Lord myself. As we sat on the creaky wooden church pews, the evangelist shared with us kids that Jesus died for our sins so we could be friends with God. โ€œJust like Mrs. Deeds!โ€ I thought. Raising my hand, I came forward during the altar call. I wanted to know the Savior who loved me enough to die in my place. Today, forty-seven years later, I have my own sittinโ€™ spot where I meet God every morning.

So the Lord spoke to Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend.

Exodus 33:11a (NKJV)

Thank you for reading. ๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ prayers and love.


This piece was first published in the Sunshine Weekly Newsletter, a publication which is shared in nursing homes and assisted living centers. A special thank you to Peter Caligiuri, aka โ€œPastor Pete,โ€ for inviting me to contribute a monthly column! Peter blogs at praise2worship.net


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51 responses to “The Sittin’ Spot”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you for reading and commenting, Chris. Yes, God is good!

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  2. Chris G Thelen Avatar

    Itโ€™s amazing who God places in our life to guide us to Him. Praise God for His love and grace. Thanks for sharing this great story.

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  3. davidsdailydose Avatar

    She was a treasure indeed, Priscilla. Mrs. Deeds never seemed to be in a hurry, with life or with the Lord.

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  4. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thanks! God Bless.

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  5. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Mrs. Deeds sounds like a treasure. I’m glad you got to meet her as a young boy.

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  6. Grandma's Ramblings Avatar

    What a great story. I love that idea – a “sitting spot with the Lord.”

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  7. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Manette. Mrs. Deeds had such faith in God, and it didnโ€™t seemed forced. Her relationship with God was so present and so real. It gave me a hunger (prompted by the Holy Spirit) for the same thing.

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  8. davidsdailydose Avatar

    She was happy for me, Nancy. We didnโ€™t attend the same church in town, but I had many more wonderful conversations with her at that picnic table. And she was one of the first adults (outside my church) I told about my conversion.

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  9. Nancy Ruegg Avatar

    Such a sweet story, David. Mrs. Deeds must have been so pleased when you became a Jesus-follower. My favorite sittin’ spot with the Lord is also outdoors–on our deck. Michael Hyatt, former CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishing, called the outdoors God’s living room. What better place to enjoy his company?!

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  10. musingsofmanettekay Avatar

    David, this is a wonderful retelling of your testimony and encounter with Mrs. Deeds. It could easily be a scene from a Christian film. I pray that all Christians have the Spirit flowing through them as Mrs. Deedsโ€“ready to share a drink from the well she obviously drew from while in her sittin’ spot.

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  11. K.L. Hale Avatar

    It was so wonderful, David! Amen! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽถ

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  12. seeingliketheeagle Avatar

    Mrs Good Deeds indeed โค๏ธ

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  13. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes it is, Mitch. I grew up in a small enough town that just about everyone knows everybody else.

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  14. mitchteemley Avatar

    A sweet legacy indeed, David.

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Peggy! God Bless.

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  16. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, it was by Godโ€™s design.

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  17. jesusluvsall Avatar

    So cool how she planted seeds that helped you come to know Jesus

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  18. peggywritesblog Avatar

    What a lovely story, David, we all need a โ€œsittinโ€ spot with the Lord!

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  19. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You had me at Southern Gospel picnic. ๐Ÿงบ โค๏ธ Itโ€™s always good to come home.

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  20. K.L. Hale Avatar

    It’s my blessing, David. I saw a few of them just today. You and Pastor Pete, and others I’m sure, would have enjoyed my experience. I am visiting my former community. Came “home” to attend a little log church in the woods called The Gathering ~ the Word was alive, and we all gathered to hear truth in so many different books of the Bible~ but to be Do’ers! It has blessed me to come home for a couple of days and I’ll be sure to share about it later. You’ll appreciate the environment! Going to the Southern Gospel picnic at Silver Dollar City later. May you and your family stay blessed and safe!! Thank
    You for all you do!

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  21. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you again, Ken. ๐Ÿ˜Š I just saw your comment and approved it.

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  22. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Ken.

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  23. ken riddles Avatar

    Great story ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ‘

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  24. ken riddles Avatar

    Great story. ๐Ÿ‘

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  25. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you. By todayโ€™s standards, it was magical. Mrs. Deeds, weather permitting, was usually out sitting in her spotโ€”ready to talk with anyone who sat down.

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  26. FlowIntoWords Avatar

    This is a beautiful story. Iโ€™ve never heard of sitting spots. Your story has an almost magical feel. Amazing how much influence one person can have, especially on a child. โค๏ธ Thanks for sharing this!

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  27. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you for reading and comment, Rocky! God Bless!

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  28. Rocky Avatar

    Thank you David. That was a great story.

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  29. davidsdailydose Avatar

    โค๏ธ Right back at you, Super-C!

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  30. God Still Speaks Avatar

    And this is why I love you!

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  31. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Itโ€™s todayโ€™s dateโ€”minus the first zero 082424๐Ÿค—

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  32. God Still Speaks Avatar

    Wow, that’s a lot of bonus points! And even after I tithe 8242 of them, I still have plenty left over!

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  33. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Mrs. Deeds truly was a lay counselor to many in our little community. And folks knew where to find herโ€”sitting at the picnic table in her front yard. Iโ€™ve heard of places in sub-Saharan Africa where war and famine are prevalent, that have โ€œgrandmotherโ€ benches, placed in easily accessible places. A wise maternal elder sits and waits to visit with anyone who needs a listening ear. Traveling Trauma Counselors!

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  34. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Joy. God Bless!

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  35. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Karla. There are still a few โ€œMrs. Deedsโ€ in the world, and I want to be more like them. I appreciate you stopping by today. God Bless!

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  36. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Psalm 91:1 is one of my favorite Bible verses. Thank you for sharing. Blessings!

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  37. davidsdailydose Avatar

    And we are both blessed to say we knew Mrs. Deeds personally.

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  38. davidsdailydose Avatar

    As I recall, she had no television ๐Ÿ“บ in her little house, and this was a rarityโ€”even in the 1970โ€™s. My mom told me Mrs. Deedโ€™s said it took too much of her time.๐Ÿ˜‡

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  39. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Youโ€™re welcome, Sister Super-C. 82424 bonus pointsโ€”for you!

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  40. davidsdailydose Avatar

    My dadโ€™s sitting spot was out in the garage, and later out in his little shop building, where he liked to piddle.

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  41. Gary Fultz Avatar

    My dad and I used to talk about those “Sitting Spots” with the Lord…our “trysting Places”. If only everyone would do that.

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  42. God Still Speaks Avatar

    This is a wonderful testimony! Thank you SO much for sharing it!

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  43. Bridget Avatar

    I pray we all can let the Lordโ€™s light shine through us, the way Mrs. Deeds did. Thank you so much for sharing this story.

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  44. Angela Avatar
    Angela

    Beautifully written! Iโ€™m blessed to say, I was also on that same creaky wooden church pew, with my hand in the air.

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  45. ladysheepdog Avatar

    I can not explain at this time what that picture and and the title of this blog mean to me. He who dwells in the secret place of The Most High shall abide under the shadow of The Almighty.

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  46. K.L. Hale Avatar

    David, this is such a heartwarming and beautiful testimony! Mrs. Deeds reminds me of my grandmother. The Sittin’ Spot’ ….we are never alone with Jesus! God bless you, my friend! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿฅฐ

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  47. Don't Lose Hope Avatar

    How lovely that she shared so openly about her close and meaningful relationship with the Lord … and think of the effect it had on you (and likely others). Very powerful.

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  48. joynealkidney Avatar

    What a lovely story to begin a Saturday!

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  49. davidsdailydose Avatar

    That was really her name, brother! And Mrs โ€œDeedsโ€ described her well. Thank you for being a faithful reader and commenter. The Lordโ€™s Blessings to you and Susan, as well. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ณ๓ ฃ๓ ด๓ ฟ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

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  50. Alan Kearns Avatar

    what a lovely wee story; you paint a beautiful picture of Mrs. Deeds which is very appealing. Thank you for blessing me in this today. God bless you and Nancy today ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ณ๓ ฃ๓ ด๓ ฟ

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