Selective Listening (again)

It happens every 4th of July – Independence Day here in the USA. In our little hamlet it’s perfectly legal for folks to shoot off fireworks, on the streets and from their back yards. And each passing year the relentless noise is more startling to my sense of well-being. Time to break out the noises canceling headphones.

So I’m sitting at the kitchen table (phones on) surfing the net, when my wife comes in and starts rummaging through a cabinet drawer. She looks my way and says something unintelligible. I respond, “If you’re telling me something right now I can’t hear you.” She starts laughing, because she was chiding me (kindly) for misplacing the ink pen that goes in the drawer. Confession: I occasionally employ something called “selective spousal listening.”

This whole scene made me think of something God said to Israel during the prophet Isaiah’s time.

Don’t think the Lord is too weak to save you or too deaf to hear your call for help! It is because of your sins that He doesn’t hear you. It is your sins that separate you from God when you try to worship Him.

Isaiah 59:1-2 (GNT)

Here’s an experiment: Watch television for a week and count the number of times you hear the word “sin.” I suspect you won’t run out of fingers. Transgression of divine law isn’t something the world cares to talk about. But why?

Somehow we know instinctively there’s nothing wrong with God; the wrong is in us. Sin damages our fellowship with our Creator and disrupts the ability to communicate with Him. This causes even unbelievers to scurry for the shadows (John 3:19-21).

Have there been times when you’ve tried to talk with God, but it felt like He wasn’t tuned in? Me too. “Child, if you’re telling me something right now, I can’t hear you.” Of course the Lord isn’t deaf. But He occasionally employs something called “selective divine listening.” Our unconfessed sin plugs His ears.

Thankfully, there is a solution:

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

1 John 1:9 (NIV)

God always listens to prayers that start with, “Sorry, Lord. It was my fault…”

A Parting Thought:

Jesus often slipped away to spend time alone with God (Mark 1:35). He also led a sinless life (Hebrews 4:15). Is there a connection? You and I will never be sinless–this side of heaven. But we would do well to follow Christ’s example.

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


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This post first published back in early July of 2020 something.

Comments

16 responses to “Selective Listening (again)”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You are most welcome, Patrica. It’s a collective wisdom in the Lord that share. I appreciate your regular reading and commenting on my offerings. God Bless!

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  2. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and especially the Isaiah verses that I needed to hear.

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  3. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you for reading and commenting, Angie. Thankfully, we have a loving God who doesn’t mind saying things again—and sometimes again. God Bless!

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  4. Angie Avatar

    How timely this was for me, David. Thank you for reminding us that we may be the barrier to getting through. It gave me pause.

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  5. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Selective listening is something I use when being asked to do something I don’t want to do. Another fun one for me is while speaking Spanish with someone and they want me to do something is to say no entiendo-I don’t understand.

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  6. K.L. Hale Avatar

    It’s my blessing, David! God continues blessing me and answering prayers. I’m beyond grateful! Thank you, my friend. 🙏❤️

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  7. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Karla! God knows the difficult path you’ve been down, and continue to travel. His grace and mercy are with you! I’m praying on for you. 🙏❤️

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  8. K.L. Hale Avatar

    Wonderful words of wisdom, David! Our sin can really cause divine service interruptions! Just like your noise-cancelling headphones.
    Recently, due to some serious health scares, I needed to….slip away. The daily surrendering, confessing, and to “let go, Let God”–it’s more than words. It’s from my heart. God, forgive me. Thank you for your love, grace, and mercy!
    Many blessings, brother!

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  9. pastorpete51 Avatar

    Great point here Dave. That is a verse that I had forgotten but is an important one to remember. How much we need God’s help and how rarely we remember to call on Him until an emergency strikes.

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  10. My Life in Our Father's World Avatar

    In my new role I do not have a summer break, but I LOVE my job as Assistant Director.

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  11. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I’m glad you liked where the post landed, Barb. You’re likely not the only one who wasn’t sure where I was going. It’s time for me to find a new editor. Wait, I’m my own editor. 😐
    Thank you for reading a commenting. I hope you’re enjoying summer break.
    God Bless!

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  12. My Life in Our Father's World Avatar

    I wasn’t sure where you were going but I like where you ended up.

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  13. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Agreed! Tuning in to God’s thoughts helps me be more thoughtful toward others.
    Thanks for stopping by, Sister Super C. God Bless!

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  14. God Still Speaks Avatar

    I agree! After 45 years of marriage, my husband and I have to really work as to not have “selective spousal listening.” For me if I tune into divine listening, it helps me with the other!

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, bro. One of our dogs was shaking like a leaf last night, but the other one was pretty much fine.

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  16. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    I love the way you tie together selective spousal listening and selective divine listening. Sometimes the problem is in our hearing more than God’s response. You’re right—we are much more likely to experience sin than we are to hear it mentioned on the nightly news. Have a blessed day—hope the dogs aren’t too bothered by all the racket. Hope you and Nancy have a wonderful weekend.

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