Do Overs

As an elementary school administrator, I often deal with student discipline issues. Sitting across from a red-faced child, I read the teacher’s note: “When asked to pick up the play area and return to his desk, Johnny kicked me in the shin, screamed ‘Leave me alone!’ and ran out of the room.”

As I offer little Johnny a tissue to wipe his tear-streaked face, I think to myself, “Does this child’s behavior summarize who they are?” The answer is almost always no. Children are characterized by their actions, but not necessarily defined by them. It’s the same for big people.

Remember the Bible story of the woman caught in adultery? The Pharisees brought her to Jesus and demanded that she be stoned—according to Mosaic Law.  But Christ turned the spotlight back on them:

They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

John 8:7 (NLT)

A bruise inflicted shin naturally leads to thoughts of retribution, but when a student misbehaves, a good teacher has but one goal—for that behavior to never happen again.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

John 8:11 (NIV)

Kind reader, if you’re like me, you’ve kicked, screamed, and ran (in an adult context) plenty of times. Isn’t it wonderful that God allows do-overs?

If you, O Lord, kept a record of sins, O Lord, who could stand? But with you there is forgiveness; therefore you are feared.

Psalm 130:5 (NIV)

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ Prayers and love.


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48 responses to “Do Overs”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Amen! We all have feet of clay. Thank you for reading and commenting, Ann. I hope I remembered your name correctly. 😊God Bless!

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  2. Musings&Roses Avatar

    Can so deeply relate! But thank God for mercy not to condemn!
    🙏

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  3. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I concocted a sample situation to share how things often go with young children. The reality is, students act out for a variety of reasons. My job is to put on my detective’s 🕵️‍♂️ hat and find out why. Thankfully, we have counselors at our school who can assist. It’s truly a team effort—one that starts with being understanding towards a student—regardless of their behavior.

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  4. jesusluvsall Avatar

    When a child does something like that, my first thought is wondering how their home life is.
    I used to get in trouble for talking with my friends when we were supposed to be doing learning activities, but I had done them quickly and was bored.

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  5. mitchteemley Avatar

    Wonderful indeed, David!

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  6. deborah wenzler farris Avatar

    Oh David, yes. My kicks taught me how to balance on one leg. And then, eventually, God turned it all into dancing. He is amazing and never gives up on us.
    ❤️

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  7. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Me too, Priscilla! I just realized today that you write and review for “The Well Read Fish.” Kudos!

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  8. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Oh yes, I am so thankful for do-overs!

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  9. davidsdailydose Avatar

    This scripture pairs well with the thought behind this post, Crystal. We are all prone to the same mistakes and ought to show others grace—like we would want if in the same situation.
    It’s amazing how Jesus often turned common sense thinking upside down. Peter probably thought he was being generous—with seven forgives—but Jesus upped the ante. Gotta give it up to such a gracious guy, and God. 🤗

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  10. Crystal Byers Avatar

    I find peace in Matthew 18:

    21 Then Peter came up and said to Him, “Lord, how many times shall my brother sin against me and I still forgive him? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus *said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to [a]seventy-seven times.

    And the footnote that says “Or possibly seventy times seven.”

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  11. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Peggy. God Bless!

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  12. ladysheepdog Avatar

    Oh my, the new perspective I have on a post like this. All my brain can think about is undetected social anxiety. Though some children just are not parented best in the discipline area or social graces, there are a good chunk that deal with social anxiety and executive function dysfunction. As someone that is in the vocation capacity you are, please learn as much as you can about neurodiversity and what meltdowns of someone with a neurodiverse mind looks like.

    Many of us parents didn’t/don’t know what was/is happening to our child, as this is a fairly new nuance in our society. Especially in the school setting. I understand it all can be overwhelming. I’m sure you really don’t need anything more on your to do list. But this is a very important topic and affects us all in ways we are still learning about. Any help towards this is much appreciated.

    I will pray for you to have strength and wisdom in approaching this topic. Anything I can help with I will. There is good info out there from those who have done more study than me and been longer active in/on this subject matter. And as wisdom goes, there’s safety in a multitude of counselors. Proverbs 11:14 if you wanted the reference. Thanks for all you do.

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  13. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Wonderful story and lesson for us all! We all need a “do-over” from time to time.

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  14. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Oh the fun! My dad once had a large reel to reel tape recorder, as well. He rarely used it, though. As a kid, I never truly understood how the thing worked.

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    His grace is truly amazing, how He cleans us off and puts us back out there after we stumble. Not only does God know me better than I know myself, He often loves me better than I love myself, too. Thank you for reading and commenting, Manette Kay. 🙏The Lord bless you and keep you.

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  16. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Good point, Pete. Christ took the punishment for all of us, so that we could be made right with God. Amen!

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  17. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I often think of how the direct tie to a loving Heavenly Father helps me do a job that sometimes feels undoable, Beth. Thank you for the encouragement!

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  18. musingsofmanettekay Avatar

    P.S. That photo surfaced long ago memories. My first tape recorder was a reel-to-reel. My cousins envied me and I remember we played spy games trying to sneak close to the room the adults were in. We would record what they were talking about and then privately listen to their typical boring grown-up conversations about work, the weather, local politics, etc. nothing very “spy” worthy. But loads of fun.

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  19. musingsofmanettekay Avatar

    I’ve screamed accusations at God and proof of His mercy and grace is that I’m living. He didn’t strike me dead on the spot. He permits the foolish child in us to emote on Him and loves us through those times. No greater love has been extended to us.

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  20. pastorpete51 Avatar

    We need to be humbly thankful for that second chance.. Jesus could say, neither do I condemn you, because He took the nails and the crown of thorns.

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  21. Beth Alisan Avatar

    David, you should really consider writing a devotional for teachers. Administrators definitely need an extra dose of grace, discernment, and wisdom. Your students and teachers are blessed to have one who has a direct tie to the limitless source of all these things.

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  22. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I remember having a cassette player that could find the beginning or ending of a song. I just hit ⏪or ⏩to go back or skip to the next song. It was amazing tech! For then, anyway. 🤓

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  23. God Still Speaks Avatar

    I remember when I switched all of my eight tracks over to cassettes! Living large, I was!

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  24. davidsdailydose Avatar

    It’s a two mulligan day! Yeah!!

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  25. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I’m thankful, too, Bridget. There have been a few times when I would have kicked God in both shins—if He had any. Graciously, He did not hold it against me. It’s a great reminder to love others like He does.

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  26. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I thought so, too, Sister Super C. An eight track would have been even better. I think the picture goes with the rewind ⏪ theme of the story. Thanks for reading and commenting. His best to you !

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  27. Bridget A. Thomas Avatar

    I have kicked and screamed and ran too! Oh how thankful I am that the Good Lord never gives up on us! 🙌♥️🙏

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  28. God Still Speaks Avatar

    Oh I love the edge of the cassette tape in this picture! Very old school!

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  29. God Still Speaks Avatar

    Well you beat me to using the word mulligan, so I’ll just wholeheartedly agree with your comment then!

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  30. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    Amen. Our perspective changes radically when suffering becomes a personal issue.

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  31. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Or, in my case, “What if it was your own son?”

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  32. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    Thanks, friend. When I get asked about what we should do about the homeless problem, I often find myself repeating the words of our founder: “What if it was YOUR Mom?”

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  33. davidsdailydose Avatar

    And God Bless you, brother for the difficult work you do, as well. Every person on the streets is somebody’s son or daughter. It’s not a faceless situation.

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  34. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    God bless you for doing the work you do. As the song says “the children, they are the future…”

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  35. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, brother Alan. I, too, have shaken my fist at heaven, and God took it in stride. Then, when I was ready, He spoke peace to my heart. ❤️ I’m glad you are here today! Blessings to you and yours, and prayers for Scotland. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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  36. Don't Lose Hope Avatar

    That’s a great quote. I love the emphasis.

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  37. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you. Most people, little and big, are good. We all need redirection, from time to time. One of my favorite John Wooden quotes says, “Young people need role models, not critics.” I like this because it puts the responsibility to be a mentor back on me—where it belongs. 🤗 Thank you for sharing. God Bless!

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  38. Don't Lose Hope Avatar

    How wise (and often difficult) to look beyond the behaviour and see the bigger (truer) picture. I love your statement: “Children are characterized by their actions, but not necessarily defined by them. It’s the same for big people.” An important truth to keep in mind.

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  39. Alan Kearns Avatar

    A lovely encouraging post David, thank you for sharing it with us today David. Over my many years I have had my fair share of tantrums; but praise God for His loving guidance bringing me back to my senses.
    God bless you and Nancy today brother 🙏

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  40. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I get it, brother, though I will never say I completely understand what children face these days. The term “Handle with Care” comes up frequently in my line of work. A child is more than the influence from their environment. My daily prayer is to nurture and find the good in the children who cross my path. Thank you for stopping by. I hope
    you are feeling better. God Bless.

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  41. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    I love this post, David, although it is a difficult one for me to process as it brings forth memories of being marked for life because of a response in the momentary present (I probably would spend a lot of time in your office, 😂).

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  42. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Good morning, Danielle. I thought about using the mulligan reference, and decided to say do-over. But its the same concept. Yes, I’m also thankful that God doesn’t keep score. His forgiveness is always available. I hope you have a happy Sunday, too!😊

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  43. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, I started my new job this past August. Thank you, Dawn. It has certainly been a adventure, but it is something God has led me to do. Thank you for reading and commenting. God Bless you, sister!

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  44. Dawn Avatar

    David, I remember awhile back you mentioned applying for the assistant principal position. I see you must have gotten the job. If so, congratulations. But also, it’s a blessing someone like you is able to be the hands and feet of Jesus in the lives of children. I am thankful God loves us and is always there for us as His children. He hears all our prayers and sees our hurt and tears. Blessings!

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  45. gracefuladdict Avatar

    I live a life of “mulligans” ha ha (the golf term)
    I get as another shot and gods not keeping score 💖
    Love this David 🙏 Happy Sunday

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  46. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Agreed, Priscilla! The Good Shepherd keeps gathering us in and keeping us safe with the flock. When a child goes rogue, I think of this. Thank you for stopping by my little blog this Sunday morning. God Bless!

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  47. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Yes, I’ve kicked, screamed, and ran. God’s forgiveness is overwhelming.

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