Relationships: A Survivalist’s Guide

I once heard a cautionary tale about a Christian missionary who sailed the ocean alone to reach the heathen. He ended up stranded (still alone) on a small island in the middle of the Pacific.

A few years later, a passing fishing boat saw the smoke from his campfire and rescued him. His liberators were curious to learn how he survived by himself on a deserted isle.

They were most interested in the three thatch-roofed shelters he built on the beach. What was the purpose of such a living arrangement?

The missionary explained that the first hut was his home, and the second was his church. “But what about the third one?” asked an inquisitive fisherman. “That’s where I used to go to church,” retorted the lone islander.

Somehow, in his convoluted cast-away experience, the man started an argument with himself and split his church right down the middle.

Seriously, doesn’t this silly story remind us of today’s world? Never mind others, we can’t even get along with ourselves.

Furthermore, forging and maintaining lasting friendships seems to be a dying art.  For more on this subject, please read my brand-new book, “How to Get Along with Everybody.” I wrote it with this other jerk. 

Ok, I stole that joke from Steve Martin.

Actually seriously, some of my richest relationships are with fellow Christian bloggers I’ve never met in person. When I’m in need of urgent prayer, I often contact Andy B in Britain, or Alan K in Scotland—far across the water. Yes, I have a wonderful church family right here in the U.S., but I’m more comfortable on a Skype call with two dudes in the UK who dig my Southern accent.

Why?  Here’s an incomplete list:  face-to-face friendships damaged during the COVID pandemic, political differences between Christian friends, divorce, and the deaths of dear friends and mentors.

There’s also a negative side.

What happened to positive thoughts from a Christian perspective?  Course correction: hard to starboard! I’ll drop a separator here—to show you I’m serious.


And those who know your name will put their trust in You; For you, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek You.

Psalm 9:10 (NKJV)

There’s only one relationship we can count on from cradle to grave, that will take us all the way to heaven: a personal bond with God—through Jesus Christ. All other friendships are transitory. Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives. Wait, that’s from a soap opera my babysitter used to watch when I was supposed to be napping.

Back to the Jesus part. Remember when he prayed in the garden—the night he was arrested? As his three closest friends slept, he cried out to his Father in Heaven, and an angel came to strengthen him. People let the earthly Jesus down, even those who knew and loved him best. But God never did.

Kind reader, it’s the same for all of us who entrust our lives to the Lord.

This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast, and which enters the Presence behind the veil.

Hebrews 6:19 (NKJV)

Thank you for reading, 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


This post is in response to Rainer, The Devotional Guy who started the discussion. Write on and right on, my brother!

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17 responses to “Relationships: A Survivalist’s Guide”

  1. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Jesus is our anchor.❤

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  2. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I known what you mean, brother Matt, and have experienced the same. Many of my friendships at church date back to the year 2000 when I arrived. I even met my wife—singing in the choir. The COVID pandemic 😷 put a strain on some of these relationships, but they have all survived and even thrived since. Thanks for stopping by! God Bless.

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  3. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Relationships, friendships are where the rubber meets the road as followers of Jesus. Times that we need to forgive and times that we need to be forgiven. Giving each other grace. Praying and lifting up. I am thankful in this day and age of church hopping, I still have friends at church I have know for 10 years, 15 years, wo even 30 years.

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  5. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Blessings David!

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  6. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Peggy. You are one of my most faithful readers and commenters! God Bless.

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  7. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thanks, Beth. When I was in high school Huey Lewis and the News was big. As he liked to sing,🎶 “It’s hip to be square.🎶 That’s how I am with the millennial teachers I work with.

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  8. Beth Alisan Avatar

    In the lingo of my teenagers, who laugh at my efforts to understand their Gen Z language, “real.”
    Relationships are work and definitely need a sense of humor to help navigate the bumps along the way.
    I love how you brought us to the truest of friends in your parting words, as the Proverb’s describe Him- the “friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

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  9. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Love the humorous story and the great reminder! Also love my blogging family!

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  10. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thanks, Mitch. 🤗

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  11. mitchteemley Avatar

    Love the humor, and the point, David.

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  12. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I’m glad the added humor helped smooth the edges of a serious message. It’s always a gamble—trying to be funny and relevant at the same time. However, I didn’t want to sound too negative or hopeless. That’s not my style.🤗 I appreciate your kind words. God Bless!

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  13. Bridget Avatar

    Thank you for the added humor to this serious topic. Relationships are definitely difficult to navigate. And as you mentioned, so many circumstances in life create more hurdles for us. What a comfort it is to know that Jesus is always there for us, no matter what. And He can also help us better navigate the rough roads of relationships. 🙏

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  14. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, brother Eric. I knew the story has made the rounds, but decided to harvest it for my purpose.
    Your point about how God stays with failed humans, who basically flip Him the bird, is spot on. I don’t recall the exact address, but David says in the Psalms,
    “Lord, if you marked our transgressions, Lord, who could stand? But with you there if forgiveness. Therefore you are feared.”
    Thanks for stopping by. I am grateful for your insights.
    God Bless!

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  15. DailyArmorDevotional Avatar

    Good words, brother David.
    I heard that joke many years ago and I still find it humorous…probably always will. I guess it’s the ultimate indictment of humanity: We’re all prone to damaged relationships…even with ourselves.😆

    That’s a major reason why the Lord is so wonderful to me. He stays with failed humans even though we fail Him to His face…and He is after our heart and nothing else.

    What human can claim such intent?
    None other than Christ! And a relationship with Him must be maintained above any other.

    Have a blessed day brother!

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  16. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, dear brother. I simply spoke the truth. Christ is the one who brings us together. Blessings to you this Sunday morning in Fife. 🙏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸 #collab4Jesus

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  17. Alan Kearns Avatar

    It touches my heart and encourages me so much when brethren in Christ such as yourself say such lovely things about me – thank you 😊

    Despite the frailties of our human relationships it is great to know that we have “a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24b), in our beloved Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ – He really is our spiritual magnetic North, by which all our relationships are set. God bless you and Nancy today brother 🙏🇺🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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