The Town with Many Moms

Growing up in a small farming town, and belonging to a little close-knit church, meant I had plenty of folks looking out for my best interests. This was especially true on my mother’s side, as I not only had my own mom, but several other ladies who filled that role.

One such angelic soul was my mom’s friend, Freida. As a child, Freida was stricken with polio and lost most of the use of her legs. Yet, despite her disability, she had the sweetest Christian spirit. Lady friends from our church lined up outside her home to see her, and others spoke daily with her on the phone.

Even into my young adulthood, my mom would sometimes ask me to take books over to Freida, remembering how hard it was for her to get out, but she loved to read. Whenever I delivered those books, I always lingered for the conversation, because Freida made people feel like they were the most important person in the world!

Freida would often reminisce about the resourcefulness and homespun wisdom of her own mother, who saved almost everything and put it to good use. Her mom would say things like, “Did you know potato peelings are a key ingredient of gourmet pig slop?” Their family matriarch had a favorite saying:

“Use it up. Wear it out. Make do, or do without.”

Freida and her family truly believed that if God could care for and comfort them in the big things, He would handle the small ones too. But that meant doing all they could to use what they had–from the Lord–resourcefully.

This Mother’s Day, I’m pouring over memories of my own mom, who passed away in 2011. Like Freida, she was a behind the scenes worker, whose resourcefulness and wisdom blessed many. All three of these wonderful mothers taught me that we can always trust in and rely on God, Who not only cares about our needs, but He also will always take care of us all!

And my God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:19 (NIV)

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


This piece was first published in the Sunshine Weekly Newsletter, a publication which is shared in nursing homes and assisted living centers. A special thank you to Peter Caligiuri, aka “Pastor Pete,” for inviting me to contribute a monthly column! Peter blogs at praise2worship.net


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28 responses to “The Town with Many Moms”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I thought so too, Chris. We need more such wisdom these days. Thanks for stopping by. God bless!

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  2. Chris G Thelen Avatar

    “Use it up. Wear it out. Make do, or do without.” What great wisdom. Thanks for sharing.

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  3. peggywritesblog Avatar

    So very true, David! My mom got those calls, too!

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  4. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Indeed, she did!

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  5. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You make a good point, Nancy: Did Freida realize the impact she made on the lives of others? I hope she did!
    Part of me thinks she would say, “This isn’t about me; look to Jesus!”

    Frieda moved away to go live with her son several years ago. She may still be alive! I simply lost touch with her.

    Thank you for reading and sharing, Nancy. God Bless!

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  6. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Freida left behind a wonderful legacy

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  7. Nancy Ruegg Avatar

    Thank you for sharing your story about Frieda. I wonder if she ever felt sidelined, unable to serve God in impactful ways. Did she know that you and many others in town were encouraged by her attitude and attention? I hope so. Even so, when Frieda reached heaven, she undoubtedly heard those blessed words, “Well done, faithful servant!” And now we your readers are also impacted by her life!

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  8. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Indeed, we do BG! And there are still some foster moms around. God Bless!

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  9. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Our stories are similar. And if I got In trouble while at one “moms” house, my biological mom got a phone call before I made it back home!
    Thank you for reading and commenting, Peggy. God Bless!

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  10. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Wonderful post, David! Memories flood in of my mom and all the “moms” I had on the block we lived on. No matter whose yard we were playing in, a mom was watching. We always felt safe and loved.
    Thanks for sharing your story!

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  11. BG Avatar

    We need more folks like Freida and our wonderful moms!

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  12. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    Sitting here with her right now as a matter of fact. Drove down after officiating a funeral yesterday.

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  13. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thanks, brother. I know you take time to physically drive to your mom’s house and visit her regularly. This is very cool!😎

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  14. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar

    Thanks for sharing Frieda with us, David and a tip of the hat to your mom as well. Beautifully told post, brother.

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Sister Super-C!
    We are too blessed to be stressed!

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  16. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, brother Alan. 🙏May the Lord bless you and keep you, as well! 🙏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸

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  17. Alan Kearns Avatar

    What lovely and precious memories you share on Mother’s day David. I am reminded of my own mum, gran and other ladies who were my spiritual mums over the years. God is so good to provide such love and wisdom through others, whether they be related by blood or in the Holy Spirit. God bless you and Nancy today 🙏 🇺🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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  18. Matthew J. Richardson Avatar

    Ooh I must have missed those on my feed. I look forward to them!

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  19. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I meant to say and NOT simply a talker. Trying to type on a phone keyboard while Nancy is driving is for the birds!

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  20. deborah farris Avatar

    Sometimes. 😊 I’ve been working hard on the listening part…🙏💛

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  21. davidsdailydose Avatar

    More power to you, Deb. I sense that you are a doer of God’s work, and simply a talker. 🙏May the Lord continue to bless you and your Todd!

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  22. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you! God Bless, Sister. 🤗

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  23. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You are spot on about how the parameters of family and extended family, are evolving, Matthew. My oldest son was born in 1993, when the internet first went live—beyond a few college campuses.

    I wrote and posted two short stories on my site, over the past two weeks. I would be honored if you read them.

    Thank you for reading and commenting.

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  24. deborah farris Avatar

    So beautiful, David, and it reminds me of my own mother who “went to Jesus” the same year as yours. 💕🙏 I’m so grateful for a lineage of strong Godly women in my life. I think of Jesus’ and His own Lineage of unlikely women. (In fact I’ve thought of it so often, I’m leading a Bible study on the five women listed in Matthew’s genealogy of Jesus. Sending blessings and prayers your way today.

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  25. God Still Speaks Avatar

    This is beautiful!

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  26. Matthew J. Richardson Avatar

    Great post as usual. It made me think of all the research on how the conception of community is changing. The dynamic you describe is perhaps not as common as it once was, with more of a pivot towards online, less geographically-focused communities. We’ll certainly have lost something if it continues.

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