The Importance of Letting Go: Lessons from Trees

On the golf course near where I work, there’s the cutest little oak sapling.

This baby is good to grow!

It’s staked off, to protect from the wind, and encircled with chicken wire, to deter animal damage. But it will be several years before this little guy is a golfing hazard, as oak trees grow slowly.

Speaking of years gone by, look at this:

Those are no longer required, big guy.

Somebody put stakes around this baby oak and never took them out. It’s now a mature tree that no longer needs support. At this point, I don’t think they’ll be easy to pull out!

My immediate thought was, “What a lazy landscaper.” On the other hand, the “mis-staked” tree provides a powerful life lesson.

Are there things in my life that once served a purpose but don’t anymore? I outgrew them, but didn’t remove them.

Why are they still around?

If you get into the habit of doing something physically, you will do it every time you are tested until you break the habit through sheer determination. And the same is true spiritually.

Oswald Chambers

Kind reader, is {Fill in appropriate subject here} still a part of your life, one that no longer serves a holy purpose?  I’m asking myself the same question.

When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.

1 Corinthians 13:11 (NIV)

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


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16 responses to “The Importance of Letting Go: Lessons from Trees”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    I hadn’t heard about scaffolding in personal relationships, but it makes sense. It also explains why I chose not to reconnect with a few of my friends from high school on social media.

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  2. ephesians413 Avatar
    ephesians413

    There are some people I know that call it scaffolding. Some parts of our lives are not meant to stay with us forever. They are like scaffolding to help us along the way for a time. Then, when the time is right, it is important to let them go. We appreciate them because God provided them to help us.

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  3. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Peggy. God Bless!

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  4. peggywritesblog Avatar

    Great story and analogy, David! I’m pondering now…

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  5. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Nicola. God is good! Blessings to you, and yours, as well.

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  6. seeingliketheeagle Avatar

    David this post has so encouraged me. I had that very scripture during prayer last night. Bless you.

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  7. pk 🌎 Avatar

    💯🌞💓 Happy Friday. Blessings 🌈 🫂

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  8. Matthew J. Richardson Avatar

    I have a very young rowan in the garden that I worry about every time there is a storm. Nowhere near tree #2 yet!

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  9. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Yes, I do have more time to write and post. For the past few days, I’ve actually shared a daily dose. I’m not sure I’ll be able to keep it up. Psalm 1 gives a clear picker of the difference good and evil can make in our lives.
    Thanks for stopping by, big brother. 🤗

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  10. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Perhaps being an educator on summer break more time to blog 🙂
    When I see oak trees sometimes I think of Psalm 1.

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  11. Judy Avatar

    Thanks.

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  12. malcolmsmusingscom Avatar

    I love the notion of being mis-staked, David – having props or stakes that are are not necessary or helpful. Thanks

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  13. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Judy. God Bless.

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  14. Judy Avatar

    What a great example!

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  15. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you, Dana. I appreciate your reading and commenting. God Bless!

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  16. Dana at Regular Girl Devos Avatar

    Really good, I love how you incorporated the Oswald Chambers quote and 1 Corinthians verse. Well done, thought provoking, and encouraging!

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