Building a Life Brick by Brick

My father was a teacher who spent his summers doing odd jobs. One of these involved working as a small-scale brick layer–think barbeque pits, or outdoor flower planters and, as a teenager, I often spent my summers as dad’s helper.

First, he laid the bricks one at a time, making sure they were true to a horizontal line stretched along the length of the project. Then he also took out his level, every so often, and sat it atop and across a row of freshly laid bricks, to make sure they were level vertically. Bricklaying is not a job for the impatient!

My main task was to dress the joints, between the bricks, when the mortar was almost dry, and that took patience, as well. If I started scraping the joints too early, or waited too long, they wouldn’t look right.

A well-built life, just like a well-built nation is made by laying bricks: one at a time, true to the line, and level. It takes time for the mortar to dry before dressing the joints, and just like bricklaying, good things take time and patience.

This was also true for the original U.S. thirteen colonies when they declared their independence from Great Britain. In 1776 the Declaration was signed, but they weren’t recognized as their own country until 1783, by the Treaty of Paris.

Seven years, brick by brick, our forefathers fought for their independence and won!

There are also plenty of stories in the Bible about waiting. Abraham and Sarah waited twenty-five years for the promised arrival of their son, Issac. Joseph spent thirteen years in an Egyptian prison, before being promoted to Pharoah’s court. David waited over twenty years, after the prophet Samuel anointed him, before he became King over all Israel.

Good things also take time for you and me, though there are moments when we don’t feel we can afford to wait.

When I was younger, I helped my dad lay brick after brick to finish his projects. Brick by brick, our forefathers built the foundation for the United States of America, Bible heroes waited, and so must we–putting our trust in God.  

Kind reader, God keeps each and every one of His promises. In His perfect timing, He will do it again!

The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.

2 Peter 3:9 (ESV)

God’s promises are like stars; the darker the night, the brighter they shine.

David Nicholas

Thank you for reading. 🙏❤️ prayers and love.


Photos by Yunus Tuğ on Unsplash+

This piece was first published in the Sunshine Weekly Newsletter, a publication which is shared in nursing homes and assisted living centers. A special thank you to Peter Caligiuri, aka “Pastor Pete,” for inviting me to contribute a monthly column! Peter blogs at praise2worship.net


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10 responses to “Building a Life Brick by Brick”

  1. davidsdailydose Avatar

    That’s a great way to sum up how we should walk with God, brother! “The stone the builders rejected has become the most important one of all.

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  2. jesusluvsall Avatar

    Brick by brick our lives are built upon the chief cornerstone

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  3. God Still Speaks Avatar

    I looked at Alan’s comment just now. What a great analogy!

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  4. Priscilla Bettis Avatar

    Great post. I’ll never look at a brick house the same way. Happy Independence Day, David and everyone!

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  5. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you! Alan, our brother in Christ from the Kingdom of Fife, made a good point that broadened the discussion: the quality of the mortar matters, as well. Too dry means it will crack and not weather well, and too wet means the weight of the bricks will compress the joints—making the project not true to plumb. I had forgotten this, but my dad talked about it almost every time he mixed his “mud” by hand.
    Happy Fourth of July, sister. Thanks for stopping by. God Bless!

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  6. God Still Speaks Avatar

    My dad was very handy around the house and let us kids help. I remember helping him lay bricks for a walled patio. It was very educational, and you have now take this lesson a step further, so bless you brother!

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  7. davidsdailydose Avatar

    Thank you for your encouraging and insightful comment, brother! You discovered another angle here I hadn’t thought of – the mortar matters!
    Thank you for the Independence Day wishes. 🙏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸

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  8. Alan Kearns Avatar

    Great Post regarding brick laying David. I remember being told by my tutor at agricultural college that bricks were only any good if the mortar was right. I was told a similar thing about dry stone walling, regarding jointing. The same could be said of us as children of God, and as churches – we need His Mortar! God bless you today brother 🙏 🇺🇸🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    P.S. HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY! 😊

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  9. davidsdailydose Avatar

    You can’t hurry bricklaying, that’s the truth, brother! I didn’t mention sawing bricks, to make the corners. That can try your patience too !

    Thank you for reading and commenting. Happy 4th of July and God Bless!

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  10. DailyArmorDevotional Avatar

    I’m thankful for the endurance and perseverance of the saints of old…from the Bible times (Hebrews 11 “Hall of Faith”) through our modern day. Those who walk forward with eyes fixed on the Lord and the freedom of humanity have my eternal thanks.

    Great post brother David! I just laid some bricks for our flowerbed and it really challenged my patience! Not sure I want to do it again….😆

    Enjoy your independence today, bro!

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